When To Take The Leap and How To Commit?
When is it the right time to break away from the "hum-drum" and embark on the new lifestyle that you truly desire?
Do you bide your time, building in enough security measures to minimise the chance of future failure or do you take the leap and trust that you will be taken care of in life? This is an interesting subject because I believe nearly all people know that the latter is the truly empowering option, but the reality of their fears of failure still stop them from believing, or having the faith in that process.
I am experiencing the very same myself. I know deep-down that if I follow my heart then I will be taken care of and I will find my ultimate goal, even if that ends up being a life vastly different from what I initially wanted.
The answer, as far as I can see it is still on this subject of clarity. Clarity is more important than anything. If you are absolutely, without a shadow of a doubt clear about what you desire to acheive, right down to the details and the emotions that you feel once you achive it then I imagine leaving your job to pursue it is a very easy decision to make, because there is no room for doubt to set in. Plans can change of course and things can go wrong, but if your focus is clear then you never lose sight and you never change direction in a panic at the wrong moment.
The clarity and thus the focus is what strengthens your awareness of what happens around you and the more aware you are of what is happening will provide you with the ability to notice those things that will bring you the succcess you desire. This is also the case if you find along the way something else that becomes your life’s goal. It is the commitment to actually walking the path that will give you the visibility of every opportunity along that path, which also brings me onto the word "Commitment". What is that? Many people believe that commitment means spending the majority of you time "doing" in order to honour the cause, but it is the very commitment to doing stuff and trying to figure out how it is to be achieved that stops the whole process being a creative one, instead becoming very monotonous, uninspiring and unfulfilling. How many people do you know spend hours everyday sending emails and leaving voicemails and who get very disheartened because nobody replies to their messages, so commitment is a state of mind, not a list of do’s and don’ts. Commitment is being true to your clarity of vision and not being veered off the path by doubt, fear or indecision.
The process of clarifying my vision is an ongoing one and it has got to the point where my belief is growing at an exponential rate. I am really excited about this. It will be time to say "Goodbye" to the office before too long!
Comments
Comment from Rob
Time: June 8, 2007, 6:42 pm
Absolutely…
I have witnessed so many times people cutting and running in the middle of a project mostly because of fear and the fear of losing what they didn’t want to lose they did end up losing. I wish in some of those instances that I had more nerve and told them so at the time, but that was my fear stopping me for the same reasons.
There is a lesson in every situation and as long as you take that then failure is only a kink in the road to something more valuable.
Now I pray that from now on I am able to listen to my own wisdom, which I find easy to write here, but not always follow.
Rob
Comment from ianmack
Time: June 11, 2007, 6:04 pm
thanks for the advice. i have contemplated this idea many times in the past few months, and “clarity” is indeed the most important factor. the danger of romanticizing the life of roaming-nomad is real, and the reality is not for everyone.
Comment from Rob
Time: June 11, 2007, 10:53 pm
Thanks Ian.
You are so right about that! Anyone whos thinks the nomadic lifestyle is like a holiday, just an escape from “reality” and responsibility is missing the point completely.
Comment from digitalnomad
Time: June 13, 2007, 9:35 pm
I would think it is more a life style change. I have been researching this for some time. There is something to be said about the freedom.
I think it is definitely a trend, but not quite yet a movement. People that are successful at this are not all that accessible to discuss it. I guess because they are on the move. I can only come up with a couple dozen folks that are even blogging about the idea.
Comment from Rob
Time: June 14, 2007, 5:19 am
It could be that because of the nature of this type of lifestyle. I.e. not being part of the crowd, many adopting this way of life aren’t too bothered about sharing it with the masses.
Not necessarily true, but it is understandable that if you desire freedom and a certain level of peace or solitude then you don’t really want to be bumping into people doing exactly the same thing all the time.
Comment from digitalnomad
Time: June 14, 2007, 2:18 pm
Yes Rob, but I am looking at it not so much from the social aspect of hanging out or identifying with a group.
I am more interested in information about methods, tools, options, equipment, more of a step-by-step guide, or here is how you do it type of exchange.
Just seems to be a disconnect from the doers and the wanna bees.
Comment from digitalnomad
Time: June 8, 2007, 5:07 pm
It is true that when one door closes another one will open. I have found that you just have to let things happen.
This does not mean you cannot plan. Just keep an open mind to the possibilities.